African proverb (via futurepharaohs)
This is a Zimbabwean proverb from the Shona tribe, meaning that a person who harms another or borrows from someone will often forget, but the person who is harmed or borrowed from will always remember.
I don't want kids when I grow up.
You'll change your mind when you get older. You're only 12. You're too young to know what you want.
How could you be so stupid? Do you know anything about safe sex? You should be ashamed.
I'm a single mother with an infant son.
You should've gone to college first. You need a stable career before you can support a child.
I'm married and my spouse and I both have stable careers. I have two young daughters now.
You're not staying home? Who's going to take care of them? You're just going to put them in day care while you work? That's selfish of you. You can't expect to raise decent kids with a full-time job.
I just had my first child.
Why would you have a child when you're that old? Do you realize the health risks of being pregnant at your age? When your kid is a teenager you'll be a senior citizen. That's inconsiderate of you.
I haven't had any children.
Your life must be so unfulfilling. Is there something wrong with you? Why didn't you want kids? How strange.
Wanna know what’s sexy? Consent
wrong! consent is absolutely mandatory
calling it sexy does two things:
- makes consent seem like something attractive rather than required
- makes it out to be something sexual while consent is also required in non-sexual scenarios as well
consent is absolutely mandatory
plus pressuring girls into giving consent by implying that otherwise theyre not sexy